The Adventures of the Twin Princesses

Every mother has either said or heard the phrase: "The first year goes by so fast!" As I approach the one year mark, less than 3 months away, I know that this phrase isn't just another cliche. In fact, I can't even believe it's been 9 months. 

 

How can 365 days possible go any quicker than any other previous year?

 

The days where your child is constantly screaming at the top of his/her lungs, you wish for them to grow up. This year will never end. The numerous sleepless nights, feeding around the clock, forgetting what clean, un-spit up, clothes are.  Seriously, why would people say the first year is quick. At times it feels like time is standing still. 

 

Suddenly my girls are 9 months old. They are little people, with their own big personalities. Oh My God, you girls will be 1 soon. ONE! Where has the time gone? 

 

When you realize how much a baby learns in one year from the day they are born, you begin to think there can't possibly be only 12 months in a year. From simply learning how to hold their heads up to learning how to sit up. From learning how to keep formula down without spitting it all up to learning how to eat solid foods. From laying to rolling to scooting to crawling. Standing to walking! 

 

Weren't my girls just born? 

 

My girls are very mobile. Olivia is constantly crawling all over the place. Juliana is starting to army crawl, just a week or so behind her "big" sister. I seriously feel like i just blinked and they grew up. 

 

Didn't I just return to work? That couldn't possibly have happened 6 months ago. 

 

There were times that I wished they would grow up; who hasn't. The year may go by fast but it's not easy. However, knowing how fast it has gone, I'd rather have those difficult nights than not having children at all.  

 

For those who are just starting out, or are still pregnant. Don't dismiss those "cliche" sayings. There are some truth behind them. Before you know it, your child became a todler. 

 

Just don't blink, you just may miss 3 months of your babies life. 

Morgan 03.10.2013 15:17

You're right when you're in it, doing the day to day routine w/ the girls, it's hard to remember how fast it really goes until you stop & think.

Aunt Sandy (Gran San) 03.10.2013 15:06

There' s a Kenny Chesney song called just that, "Don't Blink." As you too have experienced.... it is true! I am so glad to be able to "see" some of it with you!

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07.01 | 12:46

Yes! We will truly miss her when the school year is over.

07.01 | 03:00

Not to mention their awesome teacher! #proudpapa

05.09 | 20:36

Chris, your writing is beautiful! Some day you will be able to give this blog to your girls and they will love it! You are such a great mom! Keep on writing!

04.09 | 12:50

Yes indeed, written very well... kudos for getting the point across without being jaded by your experiences!